You are defined by the events of your life. The good news is that you are the one who defines what those events mean.
You can choose to believe that negative events define your life in negative ways.
You may decide that the circumstance of your…Continue Reading
Imagine, if you will, that you have a bucket. You’ve had this bucket for a very long time. Once it was full of clean water, and now it is full of dirty water.
Every day more dirt is dropped into your bucket of water. The water is no longer useful…Continue Reading
To cure yourself of a negative mindset, for the next 30 days, follow these rules.
- Turn off your television. Don’t watch any television at all. But especially don’t watch any news. Don’t even have the news on as background noise while…
This morning I drove my teenage son through Burger King (I know, I know. I am waiting for Children’s Service to arrive any minute now).
It was 10:05 AM, and my son wanted lunch. The fancy electronic menu showed only breakfast choices, so I…Continue Reading
Some people reflexively take the contrarian view. But there is nothing to be gained by always taking the contrarian view.
If you say white, the reflexively contrarian says black. If you say up, the reflexively contrarian says down. It doesn't…Continue Reading