Negativity and Proximity Deprivation

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Once you recognize that someone on your team is negative, you have to begin the process of removing them. The longer you wait to remove that person, the more you risk the rest of your team. Negativity is the only cancer that spreads by contact, and leaving the person in their … [Read more...]

You Are Manifesting Your Negative Beliefs

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What you believe has a way of manifesting itself in your life. If you believe that cold calling sucks, that it’s miserable work, that it no longer works, and that it is a waste of your time, that belief will become your reality. It doesn’t matter that it isn’t true, and it … [Read more...]

What Dissatisfaction Means (Part One)

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We use the word "dissatisfaction" to describe the gap between the status quo and some better future state. It might mean that your dream client is unhappy with something now. They might have some pain that they can point to. It might also mean they have aspirations. They might … [Read more...]

Leaving A Trail of Negativity Behind You

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You’re entitled to your opinions. It’s okay that you have strong political leanings in some direction. You might even believe that it’s your duty and responsibility to share your opinions with the rest of us. But you might do well to consider whether social media is the right … [Read more...]

Without An Idea, You’re Just Complaining

Without An Idea, You're Just Complaining

If you go to people to share a problem without sharing an idea as to how the problem might be solved, you're just complaining. Even if you don't mean to be negative, you are. And the more you talk about the problem without also talking about what you intend to do about it, the … [Read more...]

On a Positive Negative

On a Positive Negative

It’s difficult to overthrow the status quo. People don’t change without good reason. The kind of gaps that give rise to change can be negative or positive. The survival of the company is the greatest possible dissatisfaction and threat a business will ever face. That's framing … [Read more...]